How to organize a Friendsgiving potluck
Plan a Friendsgiving potluck: how many dishes you need, a sign-up that avoids five desserts and no sides, dietary needs, and a simple timeline for the host.
A Friendsgiving potluck is easy to host and easy to get wrong. Without a plan you end up with four pies, two bags of rolls and no vegetables. A short sign-up fixes almost all of it.
1. Decide what the host covers
Usually the host makes the main (a turkey, a turkey breast, or a big vegetarian centerpiece) and handles drinks, ice and plates. Everything else goes on the sign-up.
2. Set how many of each course you need
- Sides: about one for every three or four guests.
- Salads and vegetables: at least one, two for a big group.
- Bread and rolls: one.
- Desserts: one for every six to eight guests.
- Drinks and ice: one or two people.
Write the numbers down. When someone signs up, the slot fills, and people can see what is still missing instead of guessing.
3. Ask about diets once
Ask for allergies and diets in the same message as the RSVP. Then ask each cook to label their dish: gluten-free, vegetarian, contains nuts. It saves a lot of questions at the table.
4. Plan the oven and the arrival
Ask guests whether their dish needs reheating and at what temperature. If three dishes need the oven at once, ask some to arrive ready to serve, or stagger arrival times.
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