Cookie exchange invitation wording you can copy and send tonight
Cookie exchange invitation wording for friends, neighbors, the office, family and kids, with what every invitation needs: the date, how many cookies to bake, the no-repeats rule, ingredient cards and how to reply.
A good cookie exchange invitation does two jobs. It makes people want to come, and it answers the questions they would otherwise text you about: how many cookies, which kind, and what to carry them home in.
Below are eight invitations to copy and change, then a reminder and a thank-you note. Swap in your own date, numbers and place. The dates and numbers in the examples are only examples.
What every cookie exchange invitation needs
- The date, the start and end time, and where.
- How many cookies each baker brings, in dozens, and whether that includes a few for tasting.
- One kind of cookie per baker, and a date to tell you which kind, so nobody doubles up.
- A card by each plate with the cookie's name and what is in it, so guests with allergies can choose.
- A container to take cookies home, or a note that you will have boxes.
- How to reply, and by when.
Work out how many cookies each baker brings before you send the invitation
1. Short and friendly, for friends
"You're invited to a cookie exchange! Bake one batch of your favorite cookie, 4 dozen in all, and go home with a tin full of everyone else's. Saturday, December 12, 2 to 4 PM, at our place. Tell us your cookie by December 5 so we don't end up with six batches of snickerdoodles. Bring a container to fill."
2. A neighborhood swap
"Neighbors, let's swap cookies! Bring 3 dozen of one homemade cookie to [address] on Sunday, December 13, from 3 to 5 PM. Kids are welcome to help bake. Please put a card by your plate with the cookie's name and anything it contains, like nuts, dairy, gluten or egg. Reply to [name] by December 6 with the cookie you're bringing."
3. The office cookie exchange
"Cookie exchange in the break room, Friday, December 11, at 2 PM. To join, bake 2 dozen of one cookie and add your name and cookie to the sign-up sheet by Tuesday, December 8. Every plate needs a card listing the main ingredients and whether it has nuts, dairy, gluten or egg. Boxes provided."
4. A family cookie exchange
"This year the family cookie tin gets some company. Everyone bakes one kind of cookie, 3 dozen, and brings the recipe on a card so we can all keep it. We'll swap after dinner on Sunday, December 20. Tell [name] which cookie you're making by December 13."
5. With a tasting table and a vote
"Come for cookies, cocoa and a little friendly voting. Bake 4 dozen of one kind, plus half a dozen extra for the tasting table. We'll vote on Prettiest, Most Festive and Best Overall before everyone fills their boxes. Saturday, December 12, at 6 PM. Reply with your cookie by December 5."
6. A kids' decorating swap
"Little bakers wanted! Bring one dozen plain sugar cookies and we'll supply the icing and sprinkles. Kids decorate, swap and take home a mixed box. Sunday, December 13, 1 to 3 PM. Grown-ups, please tell us about any allergies when you reply."
7. A swap by mail, for friends far away
"Long-distance cookie swap! Send me your address by November 30 and I'll match everyone up. Bake 2 dozen sturdy cookies (bars, shortbread and biscotti travel well) and mail them to your match by December 10. Tuck in a recipe card."
8. One line for the group chat
"Cookie swap at mine, Sat Dec 12, 2 PM: bake 4 dozen of one cookie, tell me which by Dec 5, bring a tin. Who's in?"
The reminder, a week before
"The cookie swap is a week from Saturday! So far we have: [the cookies people have named]. Still open: anything chocolate. A reminder: 4 dozen each, a card with your cookie's name and what is in it, and a container to take some home."
The thank-you, the day after
"Thank you for baking! [Number] bakers, [number] kinds of cookie and not one repeat. Here are the recipes, as promised. Same time next year?"
The pocket version (save or screenshot)
| Line | Example |
|---|---|
| When and where | Saturday, December 12, 2 to 4 PM, at our place |
| How many | 4 dozen of one kind, plus 6 for tasting |
| No repeats | Tell us your cookie by December 5 |
| Labels | A card with the cookie's name and what is in it |
| Take-home | Bring a tin, or boxes provided |
| Reply | By text or email, by December 5 |
Quick answers
How far ahead should I send a cookie exchange invitation? Three to four weeks ahead in December, when calendars fill fast. That gives bakers time to pick a recipe and you time to sort out repeats.
How many cookies should each person bring? Multiply the number of bakers, you included, by how many cookies each guest takes home of each kind. For 8 bakers taking home half a dozen of each, that is 4 dozen each.
Can someone come without baking? Yes, if the invitation says so. They usually take a smaller box home, so count them when you work out the cookie number.
What is in the Cookie Exchange Party Planner?
It is a spreadsheet for Excel and Google Sheets that does the counting behind the invitation. Type your guests and cookie numbers, and it tells each baker how many cookies to bake, flags two bakers picking the same cookie, keeps RSVPs and nuts, gluten and dairy notes in one list, prints a label for every cookie and sizes the boxes and supplies.
It comes as blank and sample workbooks with a PDF quick-start guide, as an instant download. It does not send the invitations for you; it keeps the plan behind them. It is $6.
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